Cape May Weddings - FAQ's

How many bedrooms are we required to rent?

This would depend on the size of your party and the areas of the house that you would be using.

Is there a minimum night stay?

We do have a two to four night minimum stay for most weekends.  All stays are subject to availability. Please do not hesitate to contact us for shorter stays.

Do you have time restrictions?

You may start an evening wedding at anytime as long as it concludes by 10:00PM. The daytime wedding may start at 11:00AM and conclude by 3:00PM. Generally our weddings are four to five hours.

Can I bring in an outside caterer?

No, all of our meals are prepared onsite by our award-winning chef.

Are menu taste testings available?

Yes, menu tastings are available. Price varies according to the menu chosen.

Does The Southern Mansion have a liquor license?

No. The Southern Mansion does not have a liquor license; we are a BYOB. We will be happy to refer you to an beverage distributor.

If I decide to have a garden wedding, will I be able to have music and dancing outside?

You will be able to have non-amplified music outside.  The louder music and dancing will be held inside one of our ballrooms.

Do you have someone to perform the marriage ceremony?

Yes, we do have an in-house ordained minister available at $200. The minister is willing to perform various religious and non-religious ceremonies.

Would you be able to help me with additional services such as wedding cake, photographers, DJ’s, etc.?

We would be happy to give you phone numbers and references.